Alongside learning about sexuality and transformation, we can also train our body to be able to perform better when making love. It’s less about lasting longer or going harder and more about being at ease in our bodies and available for different kinds of experience. This workout is divided into 3 parts and you can do it at home in about 45 minutes. The first part is about raising the kundalini energy in your body. The second is about becoming more functional in certain kinds

Power, like sex, is an extremely broad category for human enquiry. Going beyond power's definition as the potential to be able to do something, below I explain a model for talking with others about how power moves in your existent relationship with them. You can also use it for future interactions with someone. It's a way to bring power dynamics between people into conscious awareness. Doing this let's our interactions be even more consensual. IMAGINE... You walk into a Temp

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